{"id":589996,"date":"2008-09-14T20:03:00","date_gmt":"2008-09-14T20:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/?p=589996"},"modified":"2008-09-14T20:03:00","modified_gmt":"2008-09-14T20:03:00","slug":"the-sailor-and-the-starry-eyed-girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/?p=589996","title":{"rendered":"The Sailor and the Starry Eyed Girl"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today is another one of those &quot;bittersweet&quot; days.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>50 years ago today, my dad and mom were married.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; They had decided to get married when he was home on a quick leave.&nbsp; They called around to invite family and friends, and really had quite a good turnout!&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;After a&nbsp;very short honeymoom, they went&nbsp;back to Boston where Dad was stationed while in the Navy.&nbsp;&nbsp; I have their wedding album&#8211;Dad looks pretty spiffy in his Navy duds, and my mom the starry-eyed 19 year old girl in love with her sailor!&nbsp;&nbsp; (In her size 5 dress cut down to a size 1 that was still too big&#8211;she had an 18 inch waist!&nbsp; And so did I&#8211;when I was 12!!!&nbsp; <img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"\/include\/fckeditor\/editor\/images\/smiley\/msn\/regular_smile.gif\" \/>&nbsp;)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But there is no party, no open house, no pictures in the paper&#8230;..because Dad passed away almost a year ago.&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s tough, these firsts.&nbsp;&nbsp; I called Mom today and wished her a happy anniversary&#8211;after all, it is STILL her anniversary.&nbsp; We miss Dad, but due to his condition before he went Home to be with Jesus, we wouldn&#8217;t wish him back.&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So I write this entry as a tribute to the couple that gave me life and raised me, that are a major part of who I am.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Happy 50th Anniversary, Dad and Mom.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"DISPLAY: block\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3267\/2857453381_2d9abdfd7b_m.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I love you.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div><font face=\"Arial\" color=\"#cc99ff\" size=\"2\">~ ..&middot; &acute;&uml;&uml;)) -:&brvbar;:- <br \/>\n&cedil;.&middot;&acute; .&middot;&acute;&uml;&uml;)) <br \/>\n((&cedil;&cedil;.&middot;&acute; ..&middot;&acute; <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.mylivesignature.com\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BACKGROUND: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/signatures.mylivesignature.com\/54486\/287\/A05BE19DEE23874C17855D37A6334DF6.png\" \/><\/a> -:&brvbar;:- <br \/>\n-:&brvbar;:- ((&cedil;&cedil;.&middot;&acute;* <\/font><\/div>\n<div>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><em>&quot;We can only be said to be alive in those moments<br \/>\n&nbsp;when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.&quot;<br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ~Thornton Wilder~<\/em><\/font><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today is another one of those &quot;bittersweet&quot; days. &nbsp; 50 years ago today, my dad and mom were married.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; They had decided to get married when he was home on a quick leave.&nbsp; They called around to invite family and friends, and really had quite a good turnout!&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;After a&nbsp;very short honeymoom, they went&nbsp;back to Boston [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-589996","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/589996","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=589996"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/589996\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=589996"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=589996"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=589996"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}