{"id":593128,"date":"2008-09-21T14:35:00","date_gmt":"2008-09-21T14:35:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/?p=593128"},"modified":"2008-09-21T14:35:00","modified_gmt":"2008-09-21T14:35:00","slug":"serenity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/?p=593128","title":{"rendered":"Serenity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I just got my new issue of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.teachmagazine.com\/home.php\">TEACH<\/a> Magazine (which I <strong>highly<\/strong> recommend, btw!), and the theme is Serenity.&nbsp;&nbsp; How appropriate!&nbsp; If you read my Saturday Psalm and Praise for September 20, you already know that seems to be where the Lord has me!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I have felt, for most of the time during our quarantine, a profound sense of peacefulness.&nbsp; I was a bit concerned for the young lady whose wedding we were to play for, but deep down, I knew it would all work out (she was able to find someone else, thankfully!).&nbsp;&nbsp; Other than about 4 times, when different children were at their &quot;peak itchy&quot; point and nothing would help, I felt a calm that almost seemed unreal!&nbsp;&nbsp; It reminded me of the calm when we lost our first little boy, as well as the calm when Dallas had his serious accident.&nbsp; Now, chicken pox has not been NEARLY as serious as those times were!&nbsp; Yet the peace that settled on me seemed to be like being in a &quot;bubble&quot;, where the cares of life didn&#8217;t seem to touch me like they usually do.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>According to the Random House College Dictionary (1988), <strong>Serenity<\/strong> means:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The state or quality of being serene, calm, or tranquil;&nbsp; &nbsp;synonyms:&nbsp; composure, calm, peacefulness<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>serene:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>calm, peaceful, tranquil; unruffled<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ah!&nbsp; What beautiful qualities to have, yes?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The Webster&#8217;s 1828 has some of the same ideas, but a few more that really help round it out:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>serenity:<\/strong>&nbsp; Calmness; quietness; stillness; peace; calmness of mind; evenness of temper; undisturbed state; coolness<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>serene:<\/strong>&nbsp; calm, unruffled, undisturbed<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Here is a quote from Dr. A. T. Pierson&nbsp;that, for me, really portrays this meaning:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;The peace of God is that eternal calm which, like the cushion of the sea, lies far too deep down to be reached by any external trouble or disturbance;&nbsp; and he who enters into the presence of God, becomes partaker of that undisturbed and undisturbable calm.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Yes, as I stated before&#8230;..the Prince of Peace can come into our troubled seas of&nbsp; life and calm the storm, but He extends His peace another way, too.&nbsp;&nbsp; He might, instead of calming the storm, take you deeper&#8211;deeper into Him and His presence, away from the turbulent seas.&nbsp;&nbsp; The hurricane boiling on the surface doesn&#8217;t affect the ocean floor.&nbsp;&nbsp; Near to the heart of God, we can weather the storm because He is letting us partake of His peace, His serenity.&nbsp;&nbsp; All it takes (all!) is a heart surrendered and at rest in Him.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If I&#8217;m not resting in Him, then I am saying, in effect, &quot;You can&#8217;t take care of me!&nbsp; You don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s best for me!&nbsp; I just can&#8217;t trust you!&quot;&nbsp; Listen to to that!&nbsp;&nbsp; WHAT am I saying?!&nbsp; The God of the universe, Who sacrificed His life for me&#8230;.I can&#8217;t trust Him?!&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; When you put it like that, well!&nbsp;&nbsp; It&#8217;s so easy to see it for the lie it is, and to run to Abba-Father&#8217;s arms.&nbsp;&nbsp; No matter the storm, close to Him is the safest place to be!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>One of the thoughts in TEACH this issue was that serenity is not something we seek after.&nbsp; It&#8217;s &quot;not something we go looking for, because where we will find it is in our response to and in the middle of the fires of life.&quot;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It all goes back to<strong>:&nbsp;&nbsp;What is my choice<\/strong>?&nbsp;&nbsp; Philippians 1:18 says, &quot;What then?&nbsp; notwithstanding, every way, whether in pretence, or in truth, Christ is preached; and I therein do rejoice, yea, and will rejoice.&quot;&nbsp; Paul was responding about those who were preaching Christ out of their own vanity.&nbsp;&nbsp; He could have been hurt, displeased, angry&#8211;but he&nbsp;<em>chose&nbsp; <\/em>to rejoice!&nbsp; &quot;&#8230; and <u>will<\/u>&nbsp; rejoice&quot;!&nbsp;&nbsp; Do I choose to rejoice, even when circumstances collaborate to anger, displease or hurt me?&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Being in &quot;quarantine&quot; means we haven&#8217;t been to church for a few weeks.&nbsp; Dallas had a cd he borrowed with a message by Dr. John MacArthur on&#8230;.contentment!&nbsp; (Hmmm&#8230;.I see a theme developing here! <img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"\/include\/fckeditor\/editor\/images\/smiley\/msn\/wink_smile.gif\" \/>&nbsp;)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>He was mainly in Philippians 4, and it was rich!&nbsp;&nbsp; The actual title is &quot;An Encouraging Call to a Contented Life&quot;&nbsp; based on Philippians 4:1-9<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I won&#8217;t write out ALL my notes (that started on my infamous sticky notes and went to a bigger scrap piece of paper&#8230;.), but here are some highlights&#8211;think of this and how it applies to &quot;serenity&quot;!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;It&#8217;s not about what I have, but about Who has me!&quot;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Discontent is sin because it denies the right of God to do with&nbsp;us as He will, and it ignores the fact\/promise that God will not give us more than we can handle.&nbsp; It fails to believe that this is God&#8217;s best for us.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;It saps our joy and peace.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Contentment rides over our circumstances.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Here are his points&#8211;but trust me!&nbsp; You will get a LOT MORE from the cd if you can listen to it!&nbsp; He also pointed out how many of these went along with the fruits of the Spirit&#8211;I found all the fruits could be incorporated.&nbsp;&nbsp; His are in italics, mine in parentheses.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>1. Cultivate&nbsp;Love for&nbsp;Others (in the&nbsp;fellowship)&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p><em>Love<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;No circumstance of life could strike a blow at Paul&#8217;s contentment because his contentment had nothing to do with his circumstances!<\/p>\n<p>Contentment grows in the soil of selfLESSness.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>2. Cultivate a(n) Attitude\/Spirit of Rejoicing&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p><em>Joy<\/em><\/p>\n<p>v. 4&nbsp; Rejoice in the Lord, not circumstances!&nbsp; Our primary source of joy is obedience&#8211;training the heart to rejoice in the glorious truth that the Lord is my Shepherd and <em>I shall not want!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><\/em><\/p>\n<p>3. Learning to Accept Less than You&#8217;re Due<\/p>\n<p><em>Longsuffering&nbsp; <\/em>(Meekness; Gentleness)<\/p>\n<p>Facing life with a patient, humble, reasonableness that demands little.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>v. 5 &quot;Let your &#8216;forbearing&#8217; (KJV-moderation) be known to all.&quot;&nbsp; The word for forbearing actually means:<\/p>\n<p>a sweet reasonableness, generosity, magnanimity;&nbsp; meekness and gentleness in the face of hostility<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It gives the picture of one who demands nothing!&nbsp; No &quot;I got my rights&quot; attitudes!&nbsp; This reminds me of a quote from Stormie Omartian&#8217;s book on praying for our husbands&#8211;about longing to <strong>do<\/strong> right more than <strong>be<\/strong> right&#8211;to <strong>give life<\/strong> rather than to <strong>get even.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>4. Confident Faith in the Lord<\/p>\n<p><em>Faith <\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>v. 5 The Lord is nearby&#8211;close&#8211;His personal presence!&nbsp; <strong><u>He<\/u><\/strong> is your <em>true <\/em>security!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>5. Reacting to Your Problems with Thankful Prayer<\/p>\n<p>(Peace)<\/p>\n<p>v. 6&nbsp; Ask with thanksgiving&#8230;&quot;I thank You that You will do what is best&quot;.&nbsp; Just leave it there with Him&#8211;you can trust Him with ALL of it!<\/p>\n<p>The answer is not the issue&#8211;taking the burden to Him and leaving it with Him is.&nbsp; Peace is resting in the wisdom, power and purpose of God.&nbsp; Peace protects the heart and mind thought patterns from discontent<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>6. Think on Godly Things<\/p>\n<p>(Self-Control)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>v.8&nbsp; To keep your heart focused on Him.&nbsp;&nbsp; If you rehearse all that&#8217;s wrong, you&#8217;re feeding your discontentment!&nbsp; What&#8217;s there to worry about?&nbsp; Don&#8217;t carry God&#8217;s burden, especially the burden of the future.&nbsp; You can sleep in peace because God doesn&#8217;t sleep&#8230;.<em>ever!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>7.&nbsp; Follow a Good Example<\/p>\n<p>(Goodness)<\/p>\n<p>v. 9&nbsp; Paul is as good as any!&nbsp; The same Shepherd that guided Paul will guide us as well!&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; May our contentment be a testimony to Him!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And finally, some absolutely beautiful words from Andrew Murray&#8217;s <u>Holy in Christ<\/u>:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;&#8230;.where God enters to rest, there He sanctifies.&quot;&nbsp; p. 23<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;God rests only in what is restful, wholly at His disposal.&nbsp; It is in the restfulness of faith that we must look to God the Sanctifier; He will come in and keep His holy Sabbath in the restful soul. We rest in God&#8217;s rest; God rests in our rest.&quot;&nbsp; pp. 25-26<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Rest.&nbsp; What a simple word!&nbsp; The rest of God!&nbsp; What an inconceivable fulness of life and love in that word.&nbsp; Let us meditate on it and worship before Him, until it overshadow us and we enter into it&#8211;the rest of God.&quot; p.26<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;And teach me, Lord, to understand better how this blessing comes.&nbsp; It is where Thou enterest to rest and refresh and reveal Thyself that Thou makest holy.&nbsp; O my God, may my heart be Thy resting-place!&nbsp; I would, in the stillness and confidence of a restful faith, rest in Thee, believing that Thou doest all in me.&nbsp; Let such fellowship with Thee, and Thy love, and Thy will be to me the secret of a life of holiness.&nbsp; I ask it in the name of our Lord Jesus, in Whom Thou hast sanctified us. Amen.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>AMEN!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div><font color=\"#cc99ff\">~ ..&middot; &acute;&uml;&uml;)) -:&brvbar;:- <br \/>\n&cedil;.&middot;&acute; .&middot;&acute;&uml;&uml;)) <br \/>\n((&cedil;&cedil;.&middot;&acute; ..&middot;&acute; <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.mylivesignature.com\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BACKGROUND: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/signatures.mylivesignature.com\/54486\/287\/A05BE19DEE23874C17855D37A6334DF6.png\" \/><\/a> -:&brvbar;:- <br \/>\n-:&brvbar;:- ((&cedil;&cedil;.&middot;&acute;*<\/font> <\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<div><em>&quot;Home and family seemed by providence<br \/>\nto be my special field of duty.&quot;<br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ~America Holton Ford, 1889~<\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just got my new issue of TEACH Magazine (which I highly recommend, btw!), and the theme is Serenity.&nbsp;&nbsp; How appropriate!&nbsp; If you read my Saturday Psalm and Praise for September 20, you already know that seems to be where the Lord has me! &nbsp; I have felt, for most of the time during our [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-593128","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-in-his-presence"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/593128","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=593128"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/593128\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=593128"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=593128"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/agracefullplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=593128"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}