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The Sailor and the Starry Eyed Girl

Today is another one of those "bittersweet" days.

 

50 years ago today, my dad and mom were married.    They had decided to get married when he was home on a quick leave.  They called around to invite family and friends, and really had quite a good turnout!   After a very short honeymoom, they went back to Boston where Dad was stationed while in the Navy.   I have their wedding album–Dad looks pretty spiffy in his Navy duds, and my mom the starry-eyed 19 year old girl in love with her sailor!   (In her size 5 dress cut down to a size 1 that was still too big–she had an 18 inch waist!  And so did I–when I was 12!!!   )

 

But there is no party, no open house, no pictures in the paper…..because Dad passed away almost a year ago.  

 

It’s tough, these firsts.   I called Mom today and wished her a happy anniversary–after all, it is STILL her anniversary.  We miss Dad, but due to his condition before he went Home to be with Jesus, we wouldn’t wish him back.  

 

So I write this entry as a tribute to the couple that gave me life and raised me, that are a major part of who I am.

 

Happy 50th Anniversary, Dad and Mom.

 

 

I love you.

 

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"We can only be said to be alive in those moments
 when our hearts are conscious of our treasures."
                                         ~Thornton Wilder~

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